I felt like a failure because I wasn’t doing everything. By carefully listening and asking questions, Gideon helped me realize that (1) it was okay not to do everything, (2) if I was to achieve what I wanted, I could not continue to put the demands of others over my own needs and (3) I needed, foremost, to devote less time to work and to feel physically better. I negotiated a part-time schedule with my employer and saw a doctor about my symptoms, actions I would not have taken until I began to believe it was acceptable to put myself first. Thank you, Gideon.